Blog Challenge Days 19 and 20

For some reason I am having trouble all the sudden keeping up with the posting, so again here is two days in one post.
Day 20- Nicknames
 I guess my first nickname would have to be  Mindy since my full name is Melinda. When iI was born my grandma said Melinda was to long of a name for such a small baby it stuck. Well I tried to change it in colege but that was a no go cause i would never answer to it so I swent back to Mindy.

Well I have a bunch of nicknames  first off going up my grandpa called me Winnie and then when my sister was born I was upgraded to Big Winnie and she was Little Winnie.

My Boyfriend calls me Sweet pea and sometimes he calls me Vern depending on what we are talking about.
then there  Min, Minie, Aunt Nindy and my sister used to call me Ninna and my niece used to call me Ninnie and a few friends call me Minders.

Day 19 - something I miss

The thing that i miss the most is teaching. I have my BS in elementary education, but here in the state of Ohio you need to have to have your masters to have your own classroom and when I graduated in 2000 I was brunt out and I knew that if I went for my masters i would not do as well as I wanted to so after a hand full of other jobs working w preschoolers I started subbing for the city schools here. Well one thong that you all don't know is that I have Cerebral Palsy (Cp) and in 2004 I started receiving SSD and was told that I could only make $125 a month and keep all of my health benefits. Well I was making $75 a day and I couldn't afford to pay my own insurance so I had to quit. I miss the classroom AWFUL wish i could go back maybe some day.

Playing catch up.

Sorry I didn't blog yesterday about something I'm looking forward to, So today I am going to do both day 17 and 18. I did though pick up the leaves outside it took me a total of 3 1/2 hours  but I think that will  be the last time that I will have to do that before the white stuff flies for the winter.


Now on to the blog challenge over at Katie's Journey. First off Day 17  which is something that I am looking forward to.

I'm looking forward to spending the holidays with family and friends.

I'm looking forward to watching my niece's grow older.

I'm looking forward to making memories with friends.

I'm looking forward to loving life to the fullest.

I'm looking forward to living my life for me.

Now for Day 18- something I regret. This is a hard one for me as the way I am trying to look at things is that everything happens for a reason, so when you are trying to look at things from that perspective it is hard to say that you regret anything.

But if I had to say that I regretted anything it would have to be the 1 1/2 that me and my boyfriend broke up, I feel that maybe I didn't do everything in my power to keep us together, But then again I also feel that we had to break up so that we could find ourselves and we had to do that by ourselves now that we have things are better then they ever were. So as you can see it's hard for me to say that I regret anything. 

My dream house- day 16

I am so excited about this post, I  have been through so many pictures and plans over the years and this is one of my favorites. Although I would change the functions of some of the rooms.

 So there you have my dream home.

Day !5 -Favorite Bible Verse

Well, we are half way through the 30 day blog challange over at Katie Journey, so if it would like to see other people's favorite bible verses hop on over.

I have many favorite verses, but the one that helps keep me grounded, because we all know that we all have those days when we might question things and Mathew chapter 5  helps me remember why I believe what I believe.





The Beatitudes


1Now when he saw the crowds, he went up on a mountainside and sat down. His disciples came to him, 2 and he began to teach them saying:

3"Blessed are the poor in spirit,

for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.

4Blessed are those who mourn,

for they will be comforted.

5Blessed are the meek,

for they will inherit the earth.

6Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness,

for they will be filled.

7Blessed are the merciful,

for they will be shown mercy.

8Blessed are the pure in heart,

for they will see God.

9Blessed are the peacemakers,

for they will be called sons of God.

10 Blessed are those who are persecuted because of righteousness,

for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.

11"Blessed are you when people insult you, persecute you and falsely say all kinds of evil against you because of me.

12 Rejoice and be glad, because great is your reward in heaven, for in the same way they persecuted the prophets who were before you.

Can't sleep so........

I'm posting  day 14 if the 30 day blog challenge for theKatie's Journey really early. but that's OK because I have a really busy day tomorrow. First off, I'm going to church where is Sports Speculator Sunday and we are suppose to wear are favorite team Go Bucks! Well, the funny thing is I'm a Ohio State Buckeye friend and my best friend loves those guys in blue up north:( Yes I know but shes a sweetheart anyway. So this shall be interesting when we walk in. Then after church they are having a spaghetti dinner to raise money for the teens to go to camp. Then it's off to do some grocery shopping.

So anyway back to the Challenge  My favorite pictures. You know I couldn't pick just one so here's 4 and there of my nieces. The two beach ones were from a vacation we took this summer and it was the first time for either of them to see the ocean.

Day 13 - Goals

OK this is going to be sort and sweet, not because I don't have any goals but because I believe that sometimes goals hinder us and when they don't happen , sometimes they can bring one down. So  i like to live each day to the fullest and see were life takes me. The cards have already been dealt it's all in how you play them.

OK so, this is what I would like to see happen in my life, I want to live my life to the fullest, Love life and others. Help people in anyway I can forgive those who need forgiven and above all lead the life that the Lord wants me to.

What I believe............ Day 12

Of the 30 day challenge of at Katie's Journey. So if you want to see more go over there.

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First of all I believe that the Lord Jesus Christ is my Savior.

I believe that children are a gift, and you need to cherish them.

I believe that you can do anything you set you mind to.

I believe that God only gives you what you can handle.

I believe that everything happens for a reason.

I believe that you can't love someone till you love yourself.

i believe you can learn a lot from children.

I believe in second chances.

The list could go on , but there is one more thing that I believe in  and that  a sign I have on my living room wall that states.

DANCE

As if no one is watching

LOVE

As if you never been hurt

SING

As though no one can hear you

LIVE

As though Heaven is on Earth

So you all know that I am....

participating in the 30 day blog challenge, but I did come in late on day 10, So I thought that I would catch up so here is goes.

Day 1 Introduce yourself , a picture and 15 facts.
OK my name is Mindy, I'm single i love to cook and craft and I am getting into blogging.

 Here is a picture.


!5 facts about me well, I have a cat, I'm the oldest, I have two nieces, I have a BS in elementary education, I went to Greece and Turkey when i was in college, I was a girl scout, I went to Ohio State, I know how to ride a horse, I am a christian ,my parent's are still married, I have one sister, I've been engaged twice but never married, I love to read, I love to cook, Best of all I have great family and friends.

Day 2 -  Meaning behind my blog name.


Well, it's simple my blog is called bugs, bells and bits and it's after  my two niece's Jadyn and Bella. You see when Jadyn was born her nickname was Jadyeebug which then got shorten to bug. bells is just a shorten version of Bella and the bit'\s just is from all the happening in my life.So there you have it.


Day 3 -  First love

OK so my first love came later in life and it's still going strong well sort of. It is my BF Troy. We had been engaged and live together for a year and 1/2 and then life went south for us, I moved out and we broke up for a year. We have now just recently got back together and taking it one day at a time.  thank the lord that he brought Troy back into my life everyday.


Day 4- My parents

My parents are still married to each other which unfortunately is a rarity these days. My dad works for the United States post office and my mom works for my uncle doing insurance. they still live in the same house that we built when I was 13.

Day 5- siblings

I have one sister her name is  Kristin and she's younger, she as a husband , and two daughters my niece's Jadyn and Bella.


Day 6 Something that makes me happy

That would be my kitty Shadow.



Day 7 - Favorite Movies

OK, I'm just going to do a quick list

All the Shrek Movies

The Blind Side

The Notebook

Avatar

Hairspray

Chicago

All the Twilight Series

Grown- Ups

Just to name a few.

Day 8 - A place I've been to

When I was a Senior in college I want to Turkey and Greece on a 14 day cruise. through the Greek islands.

Day 9- Pictures of your friends

I'm sorry to report I did not have one picture of my friends Sorry:(

OK, I'm all caught up now. So if you are interested in joining the challenge you can See all the topics here at Katie's Journey

Day 11 of the 30 day blog challenge......... Favorite T.V. Shows

So as I was thinking about my favorite T.V. shows, I now have decided that I am addicted to reality and crime based t.v. shows.  With a few dramas added in.
the shows are listed in random order.

Dancing with the stars

Melissa and Joey

The Mentalist

Pretty Little Liars

Big Brother

CSI

Criminal Minds

Castle

Survivor

Top Chef

The Defender's

American Idol ( we will see if it makes the list after this season)

That is all for current shows as for shows that are older that would have to be:

The Golden Girls

Charmed



Stop by tomorrow to see what I believe in and if you want to join in on the blog challenge you can find the topic here @ Katie's Journey .

30 day blog challenge.........Day 10

Something I'm Afraid of.......

Probably the most thing I am afraid of in life is not being true to myself. Not doing what I know I am capable of doing, being afraid that if I do what I want I will offend someone or push them away. I don't mean to sound like I'm making this all about me, but I have spent most of my life thinking that because of my circumstances I felt as though I could never do what I really wanted, even though I fully new that I could I was capable though I may not be able to do it the same way has everyone else. I don't want to not do something because I am afraid that I might offend someone because the truth is if it's near and dear to my heart  i want to stand up for what I believe in. I have always been the type of person that tries to help anyone in anyway possible and if that meant losing myself in the process. I recently found myself again, the biggest fear of mine is that I will lose myself again.

Come back tomorrow to see what my favorite TV shows are,  If you would also like to join in this 30 day blog challenge  go here Katie's Journey . Hope to see you tomorrow!

Good Morning

It's a brisk chilly day here, and I'm off to clean my grandma's house for her. So I'm busy this morning getting things ready as I'm going top leave in about a hour. I should be back around three this afternoon and will post again . I am participating in a 30 day blog and today's topic is 10 things I'm afraid of so come back later to see what are the 10 things i'm afraid of are come back later

Ok so saying it's been awhile.....is a understandment!

To be truthful, I just got caught up in the trails of everyday life and let  my two blogs this one and "The Cat's Meow" go by the wayside. since the last time that I posted way back in Feb. I became a fly baby and if you are asking yourself what a fly baby is I'll tell you.

It's away to keep your life and family in order, by during routines it makes life less chaotic  and we all know that we all can handle less chaos. The main goal of The fly lady is to make housework fun and establish routines by taking baby steps. I will find out and post a button to link my blog and the fly lady website so that way if you read my blog and think you want to become a fly baby like me you can.  

Another thing that i would like to start here on bugs, bells and bits is I want to start hosting different kinds of swaps, so check back in the near future to find out the details. And if you are a cat lover or pet lover in general don't forget to check out my other blog http://thecatsmeowadayinthelifeofacat.blogspot.com/.